So, I sent my estranged mother a card to congratulate her on her new Flat. I do this for myself, regardless of our history. For my own good I cannot be in her presence. This is what caring from a distance looks like...
I have looked for my mother for a lifetime in the mirror of life, but I have yet to find her. It has been 7yrs since I attempted to look for her some more to no avail. I have decided I do not want to look in the mirror any more, therefore I am emotionally, … Continue reading Emotional Pain: The mirror is broken.
Today my colleague shared with me that she was going to visit her 96yr old mother before christmas. This particular colleague has taken the time to have a proper conversation with me since I started my new job. She is aproximarely 3.5ft tall, fiercely independent, a manager and funny has hell. I listened has she … Continue reading Daughters & their mothers: A 96yr old mother & her daughter still enjoying each other’s love.
Living with a narcissistic Parent has been the hardest relationship of my life, but it was made harder by not knowing who or what I was dealing with. It is all now becoming clear to me, that I was competition to my mother from the day I was born. Below is a list from an article … Continue reading Daughters & their Mothers: Escaping my Narcissistic Mother